2009年2月25日星期三

Do We Know What Makes Us Happy?



Happiness is all about everyday, normal activities, psychologists have argued, but do we intuitively understand what strategies increase happiness or not? To find out if students knew,
Keep in mind that this is a correlational study. That means it can only tell us that two things - like having a social life and Happiness - are related, not that one definitely causes the other.
1. A social lifeSocial affiliation - hanging around with friends, helping others - was the most frequently reported method of increasing happiness. It also had the strongest relationship with student's actual happiness. No surprises here. Experiments manipulating people's social activity have found that when increased it leads to more Happiness. It's gratifying to see that the number 1, most frequently used strategy probably does work!
2. Acting happyDirect strategies like 'acting happy' and 'smiling' were the second most popular. While there is some experimental evidence to back this one up, Tkach and Lyubomirsky are cautious. I'd be cautious as well. 'Acting happy' might be useful as a short-term strategy but I'm not so sure about its useful in the long-term.

3. Achieving long-term goalsThe students were pretty keen on setting themselves long-term goals for personal achievement, and then sticking to them. This was a relatively popular strategy for increasing Happiness and there are also a good few studies to back up this finding. Well done to the students!

4. Passive leisure pursuitsHere's the first bad boy. Passive leisure, like watching TV or playing video games, while relatively popular, showed no connection with happiness. Experimental studies back this up finding few benefits for Happiness from passive leisure activities. So, once again, it's time to chuck out the the idiot box and the Xbox.

5. Active leisure pursuitsNo question about this one. It's very well established that active leisure pursuits like running or cycling increase Happiness. What's worrying is that these pursuits come lower down the list than passive leisure pursuits.

6. ReligionThis was a relatively unpopular strategy for increasing Happiness, although it is reasonably well-established that religion and being happy go together. Tkach and Lyubomirsky suggest the reason for this connection could be to do with social connectedness, having a sense of purpose in life or even reduced alcohol consumption.

7. Partying and clubbingPerhaps surprisingly amongst university students this was relatively unpopular as a Happiness-enhancing activity. It's just as well since those who partied more weren't any happier, once their extraversion was taken into account.

8. Mental controlThis is the second bad boy. It centres around thinking bad thoughts: both contemplating them and trying to suppress them. This category was significantly associated with being unhappy. Indeed, previous research has found that both ruminating on negative thoughts and trying to suppress negative thoughts leads to unHappiness.





2009年2月21日星期六

2009年2月19日星期四

Be The Best of whatever You Are




If you can't be a pine on the top of the hill
Be a scrub in the vally-but be
The best little scrub by the side of the rill
Be a bush if you can't be a tree

If you can't be a bush be a bit of the grass
And some highway some happier make
If you can't be a muskie then just be a bass-
But the liveliest bass in the lake !

We can't all be captions, we've got to be crew
There is something for all of us here
There is big work to do and there is lesser to do
And the task we must do is the near

If you can't be a highway then just be a trial
If you can't be the sun be a star
It isn't by size that you win or you fair-
Be the best of whatever you are!